How to Introduce Light Bondage
By Stacy Rybchin

What is light bondage? It's basically sensation play or a very
gentle form of BDSM play. Don't be scared by "light bondage" or
"BDSM." Those words can seem very intimidating for beginners,
but it doesn't have to be. Did you know that it could be hard and
rough or slow and gentle? If you are a beginner, you can enjoy
play that relies on surprises and stimulation.

Here are some ideas on how to introduce light bondage:


Deliver icy cold excitement and watch you partner respond with
goose bumps by running an ice cube down your partner's neck,
on their back, or between their legs. Cooling personal lubricant is
another way to add cold excitement in the bedroom.


Hot wax or a hot stone massage is a fun way to experiment. Just
be careful that you use specially designed massage candles or
the wax might be too hot and burn. (Massage candles are
designed to burn at a lower temperature than a regular candle
and are usually made of soy wax. Soy wax is also biodegradable
and easy to clean up.) Although warming lubricant is not hot, it is
still a fun and different sensation when experimenting with


Sexual stimulants provide extra sensation, which is perfect for the
nipples, clitoris or other parts of the body. Sensation balms
usually tingle and are ideal for partner participation.


Sensation play not only includes adding sensations, it can also
include taking away a sensation. This results in heightening the
remaining senses. This is referred to as sensory deprivation.
Blindfolds and handcuffs work best for sensory deprivation.


Feather ticklers are a great way to inspire laughter (or torture)!


This is another word that scares people. Flogging and impact
play can be fun and erotic. Erotic spanking is done with an open
hand or a flogger. There are many different types of floggers
that deliver different sensations:

Super Light: silk or satin
Light: deerskin or lightweight suede
Medium: elk hide, moose or heavier suede
Hard: braided, buffalo hide, bull hide or rubber
The length of the tassels, as well as the thickness of the tassels
can affect the impact of a flogging. The location on the body
where you land will also determine how much a flogging will sting.


Erotic spanking can also be delivered with a paddle. Most people
like to deliver a paddling over their knees. If the paddle is heavy,
then the wollup will be more painful. Ouch! For beginners,
leather paddles deliver less of a blow.


A Wartenberg Wheel was originally designed as a medical device
to test nerve response. Many people like to use these pinwheels
as a sensation instrument over their partner's flesh. It delivers a
prickly sensation but does not hurt or break the skin.

So, what are you waiting for? A little bit of cold, hot or spanking
never hurt anyone. As long as two consenting adults are
involved, HAVE FUN!!

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