It’s Not the Size that Matters, It’s How You Use It
by Kylyssa Shay
You’ve probably heard the old saying about penises - “It’s not
the size that matters, it’s how you use it.” Well, there’s a lot of
truth in that statement but I’d wager a lot of guys out there are
wondering how exactly they ought to be using it.
Some men think their penis is just good for thrusting in and out
in differing speeds. But no, a penis is far more versatile! No
matter the size of your penis, using it well will enhance your
ability to please your lover. As a woman, I know a number of
penis actions that I’ve experienced which really felt amazing to
me. I’m not suggesting these things will work for everyone, just
that they are something to try. If none of these ideas does
anything for you or your partner at least they may inspire you
to try something new, to get your own creative juices flowing.
Anything that makes you feel more mindful of what your penis
feels like to your partner will give you both an edge on
pleasure.
Begin with plenty of foreplay, because, as they say, “Hunger
makes the best sauce.” Once your partner is starving for your
penis, try one or more of these moves.
Stimulate your partner’s vulva and clitoris by sliding your penis
on the outside, not penetrating her. Pretend you are dry-
humping her, only without the clothing and using a wet penis.
Use the slick tip of your penis as if it were a fingertip, tracing
her genitals before penetrating her vagina.
Once your penis is inside her vagina, pretend your penis is a
spoon and her vagina is a cup of coffee. Swivel your hips to
stir yourself around the inside of her vagina. With practice,
you can do this while thrusting. It stimulates the walls of her
vagina and gives a greater sense of penetration.
Keep in mind that most women have the greatest sensitivity in
their clitoris, labia, and the first couple of inches inside the
vagina. To take advantage of that fact, pull your penis either
all the way out or almost all the way out and thrust shallowly for
a while, varying the stroke, pulling all the way out and then
thrusting all the way in. This takes advantage of the ridge
under the head of your penis by using it to create friction
where she can best feel it.
Now that we’ve talked about what to do with your penis, let’s
talk about positions. These positions are designed to help
your partner get the most sensation of fullness or depth from
your penis.
Doggy style, with a small modification, can make your penis
feel bigger inside her and her vagina feel tighter around you.
She lies face down on the bed, legs apart, with several pillows
under her hips to stick her bottom in the air. You approach
her from behind and penetrate her. Then, she pulls her legs
together. This will squeeze you tightly inside her and provide
you both with more stimulation. She can use one or both of
her hands to stimulate her clitoris as you thrust or you can
reach around her to stimulate it. You can also place a vibrator
atop the pillows before she lays down which she can grind into
as you have intercourse. This has the added bonus of
providing subtle vibrations to your penis as conducted through
her body.
Add one or more pillows under your bottom before she gets on
top of you for cowgirl or reverse cowgirl. Once she’s on top,
you can use that stirring motion to heat things up. Good,
springy cushions or pillows under you will make it easier and
get your penis deeper inside her.
Modify the missionary position by putting pillows or cushions
under her bottom to raise her hips. As she brings her knees,
legs spread, toward her chest, you enter her. Pull your body
into a more upright position and your penis will be stroking her
g-spot as you thrust. This position also allows her easy
access to touch her clitoris as you thrust inside her.
Start from a missionary position, again, with pillows under her
bottom. Put your weight on your knees and lift one of your
partner’s legs onto your shoulder. This will allow you to enter
her more deeply and will tighten her vagina’s grip on your
penis.
I hope you’ve found some inspiration here and come away with
some good ideas on how to make the most of your penis, no
matter its size.
Comments?
You’ve probably heard the old saying about penises - “It’s not
the size that matters, it’s how you use it.” Well, there’s a lot of
truth in that statement but I’d wager a lot of guys out there are
wondering how exactly they ought to be using it.
Some men think their penis is just good for thrusting in and out
in differing speeds. But no, a penis is far more versatile! No
matter the size of your penis, using it well will enhance your
ability to please your lover. As a woman, I know a number of
penis actions that I’ve experienced which really felt amazing to
me. I’m not suggesting these things will work for everyone, just
that they are something to try. If none of these ideas does
anything for you or your partner at least they may inspire you
to try something new, to get your own creative juices flowing.
Anything that makes you feel more mindful of what your penis
feels like to your partner will give you both an edge on
pleasure.
Begin with plenty of foreplay, because, as they say, “Hunger
makes the best sauce.” Once your partner is starving for your
penis, try one or more of these moves.
Stimulate your partner’s vulva and clitoris by sliding your penis
on the outside, not penetrating her. Pretend you are dry-
humping her, only without the clothing and using a wet penis.
Use the slick tip of your penis as if it were a fingertip, tracing
her genitals before penetrating her vagina.
Once your penis is inside her vagina, pretend your penis is a
spoon and her vagina is a cup of coffee. Swivel your hips to
stir yourself around the inside of her vagina. With practice,
you can do this while thrusting. It stimulates the walls of her
vagina and gives a greater sense of penetration.
Keep in mind that most women have the greatest sensitivity in
their clitoris, labia, and the first couple of inches inside the
vagina. To take advantage of that fact, pull your penis either
all the way out or almost all the way out and thrust shallowly for
a while, varying the stroke, pulling all the way out and then
thrusting all the way in. This takes advantage of the ridge
under the head of your penis by using it to create friction
where she can best feel it.
Now that we’ve talked about what to do with your penis, let’s
talk about positions. These positions are designed to help
your partner get the most sensation of fullness or depth from
your penis.
Doggy style, with a small modification, can make your penis
feel bigger inside her and her vagina feel tighter around you.
She lies face down on the bed, legs apart, with several pillows
under her hips to stick her bottom in the air. You approach
her from behind and penetrate her. Then, she pulls her legs
together. This will squeeze you tightly inside her and provide
you both with more stimulation. She can use one or both of
her hands to stimulate her clitoris as you thrust or you can
reach around her to stimulate it. You can also place a vibrator
atop the pillows before she lays down which she can grind into
as you have intercourse. This has the added bonus of
providing subtle vibrations to your penis as conducted through
her body.
Add one or more pillows under your bottom before she gets on
top of you for cowgirl or reverse cowgirl. Once she’s on top,
you can use that stirring motion to heat things up. Good,
springy cushions or pillows under you will make it easier and
get your penis deeper inside her.
Modify the missionary position by putting pillows or cushions
under her bottom to raise her hips. As she brings her knees,
legs spread, toward her chest, you enter her. Pull your body
into a more upright position and your penis will be stroking her
g-spot as you thrust. This position also allows her easy
access to touch her clitoris as you thrust inside her.
Start from a missionary position, again, with pillows under her
bottom. Put your weight on your knees and lift one of your
partner’s legs onto your shoulder. This will allow you to enter
her more deeply and will tighten her vagina’s grip on your
penis.
I hope you’ve found some inspiration here and come away with
some good ideas on how to make the most of your penis, no
matter its size.
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| Kylyssa is a freelance writer and a wanton, licentious, lascivious hedonist. She is passionate about sexuality, sensuality, and the First Amendment. You can read her strange and sexy blog at http://kylyssarotica.blogspot. com |