The theme this month in the Inner Circle is just one word...LICK.
Question of The Month: Where are those special spots on your body that you like licked? Tell us about it.
Bare Essence of Sensuality: Oral Sex
Oral sex. It's the hidden pleasure that we share with lovers in the bedroom. Learning to master your technique in this area takes a lot of practice, creativity and time.
The mouth is one of the most versatile sex organs on the body. We use it when eating and tasting food, but we also use it to give oral pleasure. When we eat something that is especially dear to us, our sense of taste is enhanced even more. And our minds turns to a euphoria state. Imagine tasting your lover and experiencing the same pleasure.
On some level, the receiving partner is usually in a deep state of pleasure, and hopefully the giving party is as well.
Giving and receiving can be pleasurable on both ends. If you are shy because of the taste or even the smell - adding flavors and scents such as cherry, chocolate and whip cream can add a playful sense of anticipation. click here
Traditionally, oral sex involve the mouth and tongue on your partner's penis or virgina before intercourse, or at climax of a sexual act.
In order to be really good at oral sex it's important to know your body and your lover's body very well. That's why asking questions even before you engage in the act in casual conversation way before you even think about having sex can be very helpful. However, try to avoid getting into deep conversation over it during the actual act. It's always best to talk to your lover about what they like at a time they are less vulnerable.
With practice, you should get better at it. Oral sex should be pleasurable for both parties. You should love to pleasure your partner just as much as you love to receive. So don't be shy - explore the possibles that oral sex can bring!
Sensual Tip: To lick or not to lick that is the question...
Everybody knows where the sex organs are, but neglect the other parts such as the face, arms and legs. Just close your eyes, and imagine being licked all over until finally reaching a climax. Is it possible? Give it a try with your partner.
Kissing, licking, sucking and nibbling can feel good anywhere on the body. The pressure and the firmness of speed can produce different sensations for yourself and for your partner all over your body. Practicing and trying different oral positions can be very helpful.