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JUNE 2010 - DECEMBER 2010

The theme this month in the Inner Circle is just one word...LICK.

Question of The Month: Where are those special spots on your body that you like licked? Tell us about it.


Bare Essence of Sensuality: Oral Sex

Oral sex. It's the hidden pleasure that we share with lovers in the bedroom. Learning to master your technique in this area takes a lot
of practice, creativity and time.

The mouth is one of the most versatile sex organs on the body. We use it when eating and tasting food, but we also use it to give oral
pleasure. When we eat something that is especially dear to us, our sense of taste is enhanced even more. And our minds turns to a
euphoria state. Imagine tasting your lover and experiencing the same pleasure.

On some level, the receiving partner is usually in a deep state of pleasure, and hopefully the giving party is as well.

Giving and receiving can be pleasurable on both ends. If you are shy because of the taste or even the smell - adding flavors and
scents such as cherry, chocolate and whip cream can add a playful sense of anticipation.
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Traditionally, oral sex involve the mouth and tongue on your partner's penis or virgina before intercourse, or at climax of a sexual act.

In order to be really good at oral sex it's important to know your body and your lover's body very well. That's why asking questions even
before you engage in the act in casual conversation way before you even think about having sex can be very helpful. However, try to
avoid getting into deep conversation over it during the actual act. It's always best to talk to your lover about what they like at a time they
are less vulnerable.

With practice, you should get better at it. Oral sex should be pleasurable for both parties. You should love to pleasure your partner just
as much as you love to receive. So don't be shy - explore the possibles that oral sex can bring!

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Sensual Tip: To lick or not to lick that is the question...

Everybody knows where the sex organs are, but neglect the other parts such as the face, arms and legs. Just close your eyes, and
imagine being licked all over until finally reaching a climax. Is it possible? Give it a try with your partner.

Kissing, licking, sucking and nibbling can feel good anywhere on the body. The pressure and the firmness of speed can produce
different sensations for yourself and for your partner all over your body. Practicing and trying different
oral positions can be very helpful.


Sensual Snapshot: Oral sex positions  CLICK HERE


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This video includes a poem by Lady D aka iopener2000 from Youtube
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JANUARY 2011 - NOVEMBER 2011

The theme this month in the Inner Circle is LOVE plus MUSIC = GREAT FOREPLAY...and MAGIC.

Question of The Month: What song do you like to play to get in the mood for love with your lover?  Tell us about it.


Bare Essence of Sensuality: Foreplay & Music

Do you believe that foreplay is just about our physical bodies? Not always. One of the most intimate forms of foreplay is music. The ears
are very sensual elements to our bodies and sexuality. What we hear can affect what we think, even when we are asleep.

When you hear something that is very erotic, it is only natural to become aroused. Thats why music and foreplay are the catalysts to inspire
so many possibilities in love and passion.

Just one song... It could literally make someone fall in love. Just think of stories that you may have heard of people talking about songs that
played when they fell in love or when they made love. Its amazing and its just magical.

Everyone has their own taste when it comes to music, but something slow and sensual will always do the trick.  Once you find the right
song(s), it's like a sudden charge that relaxes the mind into an euphoria that can enhance almost anyone's desire to feel the magic and
the possibilities that can be achieved.

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Sensual Tip: Listen to your lover very closely and you will hear the music of their heart...

Everybody has ears, and have been taught how to use them. But the question is, do you really know how to listen and communicate with
your lover? Sometimes, there are things that just can't be express the right way by yourself, but with the help of a song or melody, it gets a
little better.

You may feel uncomfortable, you may feel nervous, but the awkwardness should not last long. And will definitely be a moment to
remember.

Your Assignment:  Find a song that reminds you of your lover, and play that song for him or her, and see what happens. (You might want to
even give them a massage. Or give them a poem that you wrote). If they don't appreciate your gesture, than they don't appreciate you. lol.

The ultimate goal here is that the magic should surely spark the right spot in your lover and perhaps you will be able to hear the music of
their heart.

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Sensual Snapshot: Music for The Soul Soothes Passion




This YouTube video includes a poem by Lady D aka iopener2000 from Youtube