January 2023

By Tonia Mansfield

 

Thanksgiving is a time to spend with family, but it's also an opportunity to spice up your sex life. Whether you're in a long-term relationship or just looking for something new, BDSM can be the perfect way to experiment in the bedroom. But what if you've never tried BDSM before? We've got all of your Thanksgiving sex tips here so that you can introduce kink into your holiday celebrations when you want and how you want!

This blog post will walk through each section one at a time so we can see how well this works together as an introduction:

Start with a sext

A sext is an intimate text message. It's a way of communicating with someone by sending them sexy messages that include photos, videos, or words. The good news is that you can use a sext to build anticipation and trust in your relationship. It also helps you get into the mood when you're feeling like taking things slow. When it comes to building anticipation, sexting is one of the best ways to do it! A sext can be used as foreplay before getting physical or during sex itself—it will leave both partners wanting more!

Add some kink to foreplay

These are just a few of the games you can play with your partner using BDSM tools, but there are so many more that it's impossible to list them all. With practice and patience, you'll know exactly how to use each item safely and effectively.

You can start by introducing one new toy every week, or you can go all-out and buy as many toys as possible at once. It's up to you! Just make sure that whatever items you do decide on, they're made from high-quality materials like leather or silicone. The last thing you want during sex is for someone’s skin to get irritated or broken because they were using an unsafe toy!

Introduce toys

If you're interested in introducing toys into the bedroom, you've come to the right place.

With the holiday season upon us, it's important to consider how you can bring some new excitement and adventure into your bedroom. One of the best ways is by incorporating BDSM toys. From floggers to ball gags, there are tons of different toys available for purchase at any sex shop around town—and if you don't feel like doing that legwork, Amazon does a great job with all kinds of kinky gear too!

Use a blindfold

To make things interesting, you could use a blindfold. This is an excellent way to heighten the sense of touch, but it can also increase the sense of vulnerability and power.

Talk it out

Before you get started with any kinky play, it’s important to talk about your boundaries. Talk about what you're interested in trying and what you don't want to try. Talk about how each of you feels and how excited or nervous or uncomfortable each of you is feeling. Make sure to communicate openly and honestly throughout the process so that both parties are satisfied with the experience.

Let them choose what they want to try

When you're introducing BDSM to your partner, make sure you listen carefully to their desires and needs. Let them choose what they want to try. Be open to new experiences and remember that it's all about trust. If you are uncomfortable with something, say so; there's nothing wrong with saying no.

BDSM is more than just whips and chains

If you want to spice up your sex life, try these tips:

·        Try bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism. BDSM is more than just whips and chains. It's a way of interacting with your partner that can bring excitement into your bedroom.

·    Start slow so both parties are comfortable with it before going full throttle on the kink. Many people have never tried BDSM before and may not realize what they're getting themselves into until it's too late! Be sure to set boundaries for yourself as well as with your partner before getting started.

·    Don't be afraid to experiment with new things (or old things if they've been forgotten)! It's all about finding out what works best for each individual couple; don't let anyone else tell you how things should go!

Conclusion

To sum up, BDSM is more than just whips and chains. It’s a way to playfully explore the kinky side of your sexuality, and there are many different ways to do this. Start with a sext here or there, then progress on to some light bondage if you think it’ll be fun for both of you. When you feel comfortable with that, try some toys like handcuffs or blindfolds so they can explore what they like without pressure from their partner—and don’t forget about talking it out!